Sunday, October 28, 2007

My Conservative View on Marriage


Will I be willing to give up my career and dreams for my husband?
Yes. I believe in submitting to the leader of the home and the man of my life.
Career and my dreams are something valuable to me but I am willing to give both up if need be for some things more valuable and important.

What if you married the wrong guy and your husband is cheating on you, jobless, or plain lazy?
I trust in the Creator God. It may sound naïve (actually, it’s not naïve…it’s just plain and simple), and sometimes sophistication doesn’t help you solve any problem.

I think being a thai-thai may not always be a bed of roses. I also think that marriage is not a legal paper signed and then when things don’t work out, you can just tear the paper. After all, it’s only a piece of paper. Marriage is a covenant. It is a covenant made with God and man - a covenant in which God is present and is the witness and the binder of this covenant. A covenant that transcends all difficulties in life, including being a financially poor thai-thai.

So my idea of a thai-thai isn’t always about having a comfy lifestyle with spa and facial sessions. But if need be for me to wash toilets, clean the waste, or even attend to your sick, paralyzed husband, I will do it. That is what it means by “I take you as my husband, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health…”

Conservative eh?

Yes, old fashioned Janet…

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Sometimes I don't know what to make of you. No wait, lets change that to very often.

You can be really weird at times you know Janet...

Sarah.... said...

Well, I guess it doesn't always mean you have to suffer. By choosing the right person with the same visions and dreams as you, I don't think you'll necessarily need to give up your own plans. But yeah. This is something I wonder if I'll struggle with too - not easy to be a woman and submit joyfully. I wonder - is it better to be single and live your life to the fullest, or to be unhappily married to a man who has entirely different dreams from you to the point that you have to give up yours? Hmmm...but maybe I'm just thinking too much =)

Wong Fong Yang said...

Homemaker is a calling. If you marry a godly, loving and responsible man, then being a homemaker is rewarding. Otherwise life can be tough. You will feel 'caged', 'boxed' and unappreciated. Many women could not take it because their men have a gala time out there while the homemakers suffered at homes.

Make sure you marry the right person. Don't rush into marriage. Don't jump into relationship with the first man that comes along.

Anonymous said...

Happen to chance upon your blog. Someone told me about it. Can't help to post my comment.
Your friend, Sarah is right saying that one should not necessary give up one's vision and plans just like that... better be a single and live your life to the fullest...So wake up young lady! This is too idealistic.Godly person must have godly wisdom. This is not godly wisdom at all.

You must have heard and read that many were so sure and later regretted and suffered the pain and regrets.It is too much of a sacrifice. Let me tell you I was there and how from a good person I hated and hated. Yes Wong (must be also a lady friend I assumed) is also very right to call to tread very very carefully.Have godly wisdom. A time and a season to do all things.Don't be so happy and so sure to jump into it. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU.BE VERY CAREFUL AND DON'T LET ANOTHER TELL YOU A FOOL NEVER LEARN.

Call me a friend.

ps.You speak your inner thoughts out like an open book.Maybe because you are excited about your recent discovery of your relation with your god and felt strongly on your new found faith and like all good christian they want to share with the world. JUST BETTER BE SURE AND MAY YOUR GOD GIVE YOU WISDOM, MISS JANET

Anonymous said...

In my opinion, the world is imperfect so as the so as the man and lady, male and female, husband and wife. Through marriage, God make two imperfect persons become perfect in His plans and purposes. Be it a intelligent husband/wife, or lazy husband/wife, plain stupid husband/wife, God has His purpose. So if marry a capable/intelligent wife/husband, I will play the role of follow/listening. So if marry a plain stupid husband/wife, I will play the role of leading and decision making so a marriage will be blessing if they can help each others their insufficient. The essence of the marriage is mutual understanding, forgiving, work as a team although two persons have different dreams, visions, cabability and goals. Not neccessary that wife must sacrifice alone for husband or husband please his wife but mutually sacrifice for the benefit of each others and family as a whole to guarantee a happy and long lasting family.

This is just my thinking, today i happened to visit your web site and read your articles and voice out my though but not to comment wrong or correct.

Sorry, I'm chinese educated so my writing may not as fluent and well structure.

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